Self-centeredness in Marriage
One problem that many couples face in marriage is self-centeredness.
I remember back in my twenties when I first got married, I thought my husband was supposed to give me everything I wanted and even more than what I wanted. I learned quickly that he had the same thought. Woohoo, right? Errrrk…except it wasn't that he was supposed to give me everything I wanted but the other way around, for me to give him everything he wanted.
èHave you experienced this, where you feel your spouse only thinks about themselves?
èAre things your way or the highway?
èAre things your spouse's way or the highway?
If you answered yes to any of those 3 questions, I'm here to offer you some little tips and advice.
1. You're probably not getting everything you want – which is causing stress, right?
2. You're probably not having everything your way – which is causing stress, right?
3. If your spouse has everything his or her way, you're probably not a happy camper, am I right again?
What can you do?
Would you like to experience a marriage where your spouse does things for you?
è Do more things for your spouse!
Would you like your spouse to do more activities with you?
è Do more activities and things that interest your spouse!
Would you like for your spouse to do more things your way?
è Do more things his/her way!
How simple is that!!!
Have you turned your marriage around by giving and doing more for your spouse? Why not share your success story by leaving a comment below?