Why is my wife always mad at me? Is this a question you have and would like some help finding the possible right answers?
Here are some possibilities why your wife may be upset with you all the time:
1. She’s asked you, in order to keep your marriage alive, to take her out on a date once a week. Do you do it? Every week? Every once in a while? Rarely? Or has it been 13 months ago since your last date?
2. She’s told you about 15 movies over the last year she’d like to see and you’ve not taken her to see any of them. Nor have you rented any of the 15 she hinted to you about. Did you even take the time to write them down or engrave them on your brain?
3. She’s written down and given you 12 ideas of things the two of you can do together, once a month. Here it is April and you haven’t done any. You should have at least 3 deposited into your Love Account already.
4. She’s asked you many many times over the length of time you’ve been married to take a day off work together to spend time together, you know a day off work during the week not the ordinary weekend stuff you do, something more spontaneous. The last 4 times you’ve taken a day off work was to mow the lawn, take the car into the shop, clean things around the house, and play a round of golf with your buddies.
This is not rocket science guys! She verbally told you and even written it out for you in just the 4 examples I’ve mention and believe me, there are 100′s more but let’s keep it simple, shall we. In addition to verbally asking and writing it down for you, she’s probably screamed, yelled, and called you a few names too in an attempt to get you to cooperate. Maybe she’s even cried and been in a state of depression and that too hasn’t worked.
Then you have the audacity to call your wife and say you’re going out with the people at work to have a drink. Going out with the people at work isn’t what makes her mad, it’s the fact that you can make the time to do that but not make the time to take her on a date once a week (or even once in a while for Christ’s sake), or make the time to rent a movie and cook her a dinner every now and then.
Then you schedule a tee time with the guys, which doesn’t make her mad, it’s the fact you can’t schedule a day off of work to do something fun and enjoyable with her. There’s always some excuse as to why you can’t take off work to spend quality fun time with her, but never an excuse when you need to take care of the lawn or car or motorcycle, right?
So, you want to know why you wife stays made at you all the time. Ask yourself right now, what has my wife asked me to do that I haven’t done yet. Now you know the “why”! If you’re not taking action on the things she’s suggested for you to do to keep the passion in your marriage, then it’s time for you to figure out the “how”!
You guys complain that you don’t understand women. You can’t please your lady. You don’t know what makes her happy. The more you do that she’s asked, told, hinted for you to do to make her happy, the less she’ll be mad at you.
I know you guys aren’t that self-absorbed, are you? And you wonder why you feel like your wife thinks you’re stupid. Is it because you don’t have the self-confidence that you can do something right for her? To be her knight in shinning armor, DO the things she’s asked for! You’ll be her hero! Haven’t you always wanted to be a super hero? Well here’s your chance big guy! As Nike says…Just Do It!